Curse

magi of the light · Oct 23, 2007, 12:10 AM // 00:10

so umm theres this girl i really like right. and she lives right nextdoor. and well heres the story. so we became friends and stuff...and i started to like her alot. and i told her nd she said she didnt like me back. but then one day well lets just say i found out she liked me and we started makin out..great for me huh!!?!

it continued for a few days and then my dumb self told someone and word got back to her this was last thursday. so she practicly hated me... i felt soo bad and depressed i actuly cried and i apologized so many times. and we talked today and i promised her id never do something like that agian and she was like ok.

but now she says she wasnt thinking right when we did that. now shes talkng to this dude and i can tell she likes him. so now were still friend but not like we were. and i asked her just a few mins ago if i completly blew my chance from us ever getting back together and she was like " i dont think so"

so now heres my delima what should i do. i mean now i have to work my ass off proving im not an ass hole (wich im not!!) and waiting for her and this dude to go out and break up (wich could take a while but if the guys like i think he is hell screw her over kinda like i did to her...but i felt terrible doing it)

so yea what should i do?
forget about her( almost impossible and could take me a while)
wait it out and hopefulyl have another chance come around

azzer20 · Oct 23, 2007, 12:24 AM // 00:24

get another girlfriend and maker her jealous (SP?) of you and see what comes out from it, and if she had said that you couldn't say it the story would be different but she didn't, so yu did nothing wrong and don't wait it out get with another girl and see her reaction

chowmein69 · Oct 23, 2007, 12:26 AM // 00:26

get with another person

magi of the light · Oct 23, 2007, 12:45 AM // 00:45

great advice guys...great advice.... but kind of hard to do when i dont like any ne one else...yes i know im pressed but since when is that a bad thing and why?

azzer20 · Oct 23, 2007, 12:53 AM // 00:53

Well you don't have to like the other person in anyway just see the reaction from her if she gets all worked up about it then she likes you !

it's not a bad thing though

magi of the light · Oct 23, 2007, 12:56 AM // 00:56

then im screwed if she doesnt care because ill prove that im just like every other guy shes dated....man life sucks lol

Onarik Amrak · Oct 23, 2007, 12:56 AM // 00:56

Beat up the other guy! No seriously don't do it.

But uh, talk things out I guess. Good luck.

azzer20 · Oct 23, 2007, 12:58 AM // 00:58

hmmm i would suggest to do like me and act as you don't care i got alot of women that way lol >.<

magi of the light · Oct 23, 2007, 01:00 AM // 01:00

i dont want to act like something im not though...makes no sence huh? because i care about her alot...i mean shes the first chick ive ever cried over.

azzer20 · Oct 23, 2007, 01:06 AM // 01:06

hmmm personally i never cried but then you must really have feelings for her, have you tried taking her on a date or sit and talk it all out with her ?

Goddess Elaine · Oct 23, 2007, 01:17 AM // 01:17

I honestly think you should just forget about her and find someone else...

If she say that she doesn't want to go back with you... then respect her
decision and just let it go.

Onarik Amrak · Oct 23, 2007, 01:19 AM // 01:19

Quote:

Originally Posted by Goddess Elaine

I honestly think you should just forget about her and find someone else...

If she say that she doesn't want to go back with you... then respect her
decision and just let it go.

Yep, I agree with that.

Psst. The girls are always right! (Seriously.)

magi of the light · Oct 23, 2007, 01:19 AM // 01:19

thats we just did....before i posted here. i got her from hating me to somewhat bein my friend agian. so shes sorta giving me a second chance for me not to break her trust agian

magi of the light · Oct 23, 2007, 01:20 AM // 01:20

Quote:

Originally Posted by Goddess Elaine

I honestly think you should just forget about her and find someone else...

If she say that she doesn't want to go back with you... then respect her
decision and just let it go.

well she didnt say that...but its the vibe im getting no matter how much i hate t addmit it..

Calen The Civl · Oct 23, 2007, 01:24 AM // 01:24

I suggest you just calmly talk it out with her and then have have respect for whichever decision she makes. Just open up to her about how you are feeling but be prepared to back down as well if she decides to withdraw. If you truly care for her then you should be able to let her go; one of the supreme measures of affection for another person is the ability to let them go after you have said your peace and they decide to go anyway. If such would happen just wish her your best, stay in touch, and just be a friend when she needs one.

Best of luck.

magi of the light · Oct 23, 2007, 01:32 AM // 01:32

Quote:

Originally Posted by Calen The Civl

I suggest you just calmly talk it out with her and then have have respect for whichever decision she makes. Just open up to her about how you are feeling but be prepared to back down as well if she decides to withdraw. If you truly care for her then you should be able to let her go; one of the supreme measures of affection for another person is the ability to let them go after you have said your peace and they decide to go anyway. If such would happen just wish her your best, stay in touch, and just be a friend when she needs one.

Best of luck.

best advise ive heard all night (no offence to anyone else) but yea thanks mate.

big papi · Oct 23, 2007, 01:43 AM // 01:43

90% of girls are bad people...this girl seems to fall in that 90% so i would suggest moving on

magi of the light · Oct 23, 2007, 01:48 AM // 01:48

a have to agree on the statistics cus most people ive dated kinda screwed me over

I MP I · Oct 23, 2007, 01:56 AM // 01:56

Quote:

Originally Posted by big papi

90% of girls are bad people...this girl seems to fall in that 90% so i would suggest moving on

LOL That depends where you live imo. Also a bit of friendly advice to the OP, don't try and ask out a girl that you're friends with. There will be tons of annoying uncomfortable drama if she isn't interested. Especially if you both know /hang out with the same people. Best thing to do is move on if things don't work out with this particular girl.

magi of the light · Oct 23, 2007, 01:59 AM // 01:59

man it sucks when everyone is telling me to move on...but anyone ever get told they were wrong countless times but they had teh feeling they were right but sooner or later you give up and start to see that you were wrong...? this is somewhat how im feeling